Nation Need to Practice Golden Principles of "Unity, Faith and Discipline" - - 134th Birth Anniversary of Quaid-e-Azam Being Observed Today

The 134th birth anniversary of Quaid-e-Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah is being celebrated across Pakistan on Saturday, renewing the pledge to follow his guiding principle of "Unity, Faith and Disciple."

The day has been announced a public holiday.

The National flag will be hoisted at all government buildings throughout the country.

The representatives of three services (Army, Navy and Air Force) and people from all sections of the society will lay floral wreaths on behalf of their respective services at the mausoleum of the Quaid in Karachi.

Number of political, social, cultural and educational organizations has chalked out colorful programs to mark the occasion in a befitting manner.

Various seminars and conferences will be organized throughout the country to highlight the services of Quaid-e-Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah in achieving Pakistan.

The Fear… “The key to change…. is let go fear.”

The Fear… “The key to change…. is let go fear.”

"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."                                                          (Frank Herbert)

 

"The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear."

(H.P. Lovecraft)

"A good scare is worth more to a man than good advice.

(Edgar Watson Howe)

“Nothing in life is to be feared.  It is only to be understood.”  (Curie.Marie)

“Fear is a darkroom where negatives develop.”

                                                                               (Usman.B.Asif)

A cheerful frame of mind, reinforced by relaxation... is the medicine that puts all ghosts of fear on the run. 

(George Matthew Adams)

 

"For as children tremble and fear everything in the blind darkness, so we in the light sometimes fear what is no more to be feared than the things children in the dark hold in terror and imagine will come true."                          (Titus Lucretius Carus)

                               FEAR:
                               F--FALSE
                               E--EVIDENCE
                               A--APPEARING
                               R—REAL                     (Veer Sharma)

... Without darkness
Nothing comes to birth,
As without light
Nothing flowers.

(May Sarton)

Fear is something in the corner of the room,
Fear is when something was once good and now has turned,
Fear is life, Fear is death,
Fear is letting go of you're small child’s hands,

Shocks in The Life of Benazir Bhutto - - Third Death Anniversay of Benazir Bhutto on 27th December 2010

Right from the ‘judicial murder’ of Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto down to the last day, Benazir Bhutto had incredible family concerns which disturbed her till the last day of her life; before she was assassinated on 27th December 2007.

Judicial Murder of Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto (Father - Benazir Bhutto):

General Zia’s coup came as a shock for Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto (1928-1979) and his family. A Chief of Arm Staff, who had created an image of being a bending willow before his lord and master, Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto, crossed the boundaries to seize power by putting his mentor under ‘house arrest’. 

After seizing power, Zia promoted his own image of humbleness as well as of being religious which was very different from his predecessor who realized how religion was exploited in Pakistan by the vested interests. Being an artful individual, Zia realized pretty early that Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto would not let him live in peace.

Benazir and the Bhutto family were shocked to see Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto arrested by the FIA in a strange fashion from his Clifton residence on a fabricated charge of the murder of Kasuri’s father, a PPP protester. The dismal way in which the-then CJ sided with Zia for conviction of Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto would remain a shackle for the institution as well as the people.

Murder of Murtaza Bhutto in Karachi (Brother - Benazir Bhutto)

Murtaza Bhutto (1954 – 1996) was not happy with the ways of Benazir's husband Asif Ali Zardari and wanted him to be removed from influence in the PPP. When Benazir decided to take a side with her husband, Murtaza Bhutto became a strong critic of the PPP government and the ongoing corruption. Asif Zardari, and his protégé Abdullah Shah Lakiyari (then Chief Minister of Sindh), tried to obstruct Murtaza's political campaign. 

Murtaza Bhutto invited Zardari to talk in private and settle the problems within the family. However, the meeting ended in confrontation. It is believed that Murtaza Bhutto humiliated Asif Zardari abd shaved off half of his moustache. It is widely believed in Pakistan that this incident drove Zardari to rage and he used help from Lakiyari's police machinery to assassinate Murtaza Bhutto. Benazir became highly unpopular after this incident and her limo was stoned by PPP workers when she tried to visit Murtaza's funeral ceremonies. After Benazir's government was dismissed in 1996, Zardari was detained for having a part in Murtaza's assassination. However, no charges were ever proven due to lack of evidence.

Assassination of Shahnawaz Bhutto in France (Brother - Benazir Bhutto)

The death of Shahnawaz Bhutto (1958 – 1985) in France had been quite mysterious. It was believed by the media to have been the outcome of a conspiracy. However, even after assuming power Benazir Bhutto did not have the time to pursue the case due the prevailing political conspiracies and PPP’s fragile position.

Related Articles:

"Benazir Bhutto" Daughter of The East - - Martyr of Democracy: Who Lived for Democracy and Died for Democracy

 and

Benazir Bhutto: Assassination 27th December 2007 - - Proceedings in The Investigation Process During 2010, Pervez Musharraf Included Recently

 

Muharram ul Haram 2010: Ashurah Will be Observed on 17th December - - Importance of Muharram and Background of Incident of Karbala

The 10th of Muharram ul Haram and Ashurah

In 2010 Ashurah will be observed on 17^th or 18^th of December subject to the sighting of moon. 

The Islamic year starts with Muharram ul Haram, the first month of the Hijri Calendar. Muharram ul Haram is one of the four months of Islamic Lunar Calendar declared sacred by Allah (SWT) in the Holy Qur'an. The other three months of Islamic Lunar Calendar are Rajab al-Murajab, Dhu al-Qa'dah and Dhu al-Hijjah.

In the Holy Qur'an verse 59 of Surah An Nisa, Allah (SWT) says:

"O you who believe! Obey Allah, and obey the Messenger and "Ulil Amr" (Those who are authorized to command) from among you."

While followers of other religions spend their beginning month in rubbish sort of ways to celebrate, the first month of Islam teaches us lessons of caution, good counselling, knowledge of Allah (SWT), sacrifice, selflessness, patience and seeking the pleasure of Allah (SWT). 

The tenth day of Muharram (Ashurah) has many unique virtues and characteristics. Allah (SWT) created the heavens and the earth on this blessed day. On this day He gave His countless blessings and bounties to many of His Prophets and delivered them from the command of their enemies. 

Allah (SWT) created Hazrat Adam (Alaihis-Salam) in this month, pardoned him of his mistake, and Hazrat Noah’s (Alaihis-Salam) Ark landed successfully on Mount Judi, and he saved Hazrat Ibrahim (Alaihis-Salam) from fire and rescued Hazrat Musa (Alaihis-Salam) from Pharaoh.

Brief Background of Karbala Incident 

Hazrat Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu) was the youngest son of Hazrat Ali (Radi Allah Anhu) by Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)'s daughter Hazrat Fatimah (Radi Allah Anha). Hazrat Ali (Radi Allah Anhu) was the fourth Caliph of Islam. When Yazid, son of Muawiyah, became Caliph he demanded faithfulness from Hazrat Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu). He refused because of Yazid's wrong doings. Eventually he had to deal with Yazid. It had to be done, to rule out any further deterioration and eventual disintegration of Islam. 

Hazrat Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu) strengthened his campaign. He was determined to accomplish his mission by means more vigorous than had hitherto been used. He deserves full credit for the exemplary courage and composure with which he handled the ugly situation. He did not resort to aggression yet firmly resisted Yazid's bluster.

It all started with claims of Khilafat (Caliphate).

Hazrat Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was ill, and death drew near. When Hazrat Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was asked to choose a successor (leader) of the Muslims, he refused. When death took this great soul, Muslims were left leaderless.

It is said that at the time when Hazrat Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) died, Hazrat Umar (Radi Allah Anhu) was telling others that Hazrat Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), who meant so much to them, could not die. Abu Bakr (Radi Allah Anhu) at this time went to Hazrat Muhammad’s (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) home and found his body lying in the laps of Ayesha (Radi Allah Anha). Abu Bakr (Radi Allah Anhu) came back, and tried to tell Hazrat Umar (Radi Allah Anhu) in private what has happened. Seeing that Hazrat Umar (Radi Allah Anhu) was not willing to pay attention, he declared that the prophet (peace and blessings upon him) has passed away, and recited this verse from the Qur’an: “Muhammad is but a prophet, (prophets) like whom has passed away in the past…“

Abu Bakr (Radi Allah Anhu) was elected the new leader of the Ummah (The Muslim community). A part of the Muslims wanted Hazrat Ali (may   Allah be pleased with him) ibn Abu Talib, who was of the same blood as Hazrat Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) to be the new leader. Some people (who later were to become the Shias) believed that only people of Hazrat Muhammad’s (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) blood should be leaders of the community. This is the main cause of friction between the Shias and the Sunnis. However, as Abu Bakr (Radi Allah Anhu) was elected, Hazrat Ali (Radi Allah Anhu) apparently accepted the new leader with some reservation (this is disputed). Upon being elected Abu Bakr (Radi Allah Anhu) gave this wonderful short speech which should be the spirit of modern day democracies:

    “The weak among you shall be strong with me until their rights have been vindicated; and the strong among you shall be weak with me until, if the Lord wills, I have taken what is due from them… Obey me as long as I obey God and His Messenger. When I disobey Him and His Prophet, then obey me not.”

After Abu Bakr (Radi Allah Anhu)’s death (634 AD), Hazrat Umar (Radi Allah Anhu) was elected the caliph (assassinated, in 644 AD), followed by Hazrat Usman (Radi Allah Anhu) (again assassinated, 656 AD), followed by Hazrat Ali (Radi Allah Anhu) ibn Abu Talib (until 661, when he was assassinated while offering his prayers). These four leaders are called the four rightly guided leaders, or Al-Rashidun.

Hazrat Ali (Radi Allah Anhu)’s son Imam Hassan (Radi Allah Anhu) was a contestant for the Caliphate. The Syrian Muawiyah, who had been fighting Hazrat Ali (Radi Allah Anhu) for the Caliphate, now started preparing for a war. Imam Hassan (Radi Allah Anhu) avoided war by signing an agreement with him giving Muawiyah the Caliphate and thus saving bloodshed. Hassan (Radi Allah Anhu) was later poisoned to death.

After Muawiyah’s death, it was expected that Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu) (younger brother of Imam Hassan, Radi Allah Anhu) will contest for caliphate. But Muawiyah, before his death, nominated his son Yazid for the Caliphate. Thus the post of Caliphate became hereditary from this point. Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu) raised in revolution and was crushed and martyred at deserts of Karbala.

On the occasion of 10^th of Muharram the day of Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu)’s martyrdom is remembered. Muslims mourn the death of Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu). Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu) had to fight, for justice, even though he was too less in numbers (mythology say 72/73 on Imam Hussain (Radi Allah Anhu)’s side fought over a hundred thousands).

 

Dua-e-Ashurah - An insurance for a year’s Life

Hazrat Imam Zainul Abidain (Radi Allah Anhu) reports that who ever recites this dua( Dua-e- Ashurah) on the tenth of Muharram, any time after sunrise and before sunset, or listens to its recitation from someone else, Allah (SWT) will certainly make it an insurance for a years’ life for him, by keeping death away from him. However, if one is to become the victim of death in that year, they will by some strange coincidence not remember to recite it.

 

Nafl Salat for the Eve of Ashurah

On the eve of Ashurah offer 4 rakats Nafl Salat as follows: In every rakat after Surah Fateha recite "Ayetul Kursi" once and Surah Ikhlas 3 times. After completing this Namaz recite Surah Ikhlas 100 times. Allah (SWT) will purify such a person of all their sins and grant them endless bounties and blessings in paradise.

 

The Fast of Ashurah

On the 9th and 10th of Muharram, one should fast. If it is not possible to fast on both days, then every effort should be made to fast on the 10th day of Muharram, as there is great reward for this fast. (Muslim Shareef).

The following are some of the desirable acts one should do on the day of Ashurah:

1. To observe fast on this day.
2. To give as much charity as you can afford.
3. To perform Nafl Salat prayers.
4. To recite Surah Ikhlas 1000 times.
5. To visit and be in the company of pious Ulema.
6. To place a hand of affection on an orphan’s head.
7. To give generously to one’s relatives.
8. To put surma in one’s eyes.
9. To take a bath.
10. To cut one’s nails.
11. To visit the sick.
12. To establish friendly ties with one’s enemies.
13. To recite Dua-e- Ashurah

14. To visit the shrines of Awliyas and the graves of Muslims.

Hazrat Abdullah bin Masood (Radi Allah Anhu), a Companion of the Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) reports the following saying of the Messenger of Allah (SWT),

"Whosoever prepares ample food and drink for his family on this sacred day and delights in feeding them generously, Allah (SWT) will increase His provisions for that year and place much blessings and good therein."

Another worth-reading article:

"Muharram-ul-Haram": 1st Month of Islamic Year -- Hazrat Imam Hussain alayhis 'salam And Incident of Karbala

To read in Urdu …. “Mah-e-Muharram ul Haram Aur Ashourah ki Haqeeqat” a beautiful article by Justice (Rtd.) Taqi Usmani:

http://www.darsequran.com/special/muharram/muharram.php

Marrige: Bond That Matures Very Slowly - - Expression of Love is Important for a Successful Married Life

“What a happy and holy fashion it is that those who love one another should rest on the same pillow.”  

                                                      (Nathaniel Hawthorne)

“Strike an average between what a woman thinks of her husband a month before she marries him and what she thinks of him a year afterward, and you will have the truth about him.”       (H.L. Mencken)

“The bonds of matrimony are like any other bonds - they mature slowly.”      

                                                 (Peter De Vries)

“I love being married.  It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.”                                                (Rita Rudner)

“Marriage, n.  A community consisting of a master, a mistress, and two slaves, making in all two. ”                                                (Ambrose Bierce)

“Marriage is an alliance entered into by a man who can't sleep with the window shut, and a woman who can't sleep with the window open.”          (George Bernard Shaw)

“Newlyweds become old weds, and old weds are the reasons that families work.”  (Author Unknown)

“How you end something as profound and important as a marriage is a reflection of how you live your life--financially, emotionally, and spiritually”.                 (Suze Orman)

“When most people enter marriage, they have only had an "up close and personal" view of a small number of marriages, perhaps only one (i.e., their parents' marriage). Although you likely have known many married people throughout your lifetime, your vision of most marriages is limited to the images that the couples project to the world. You can never really know what another person's marriage is like behind closed doors. Therefore, most people enter into marriage with gaps in their understanding of what marriage entails.”                (Christine. Murray)

“Marriages are always moving from one season to another. Sometimes we find ourselves in winter--discouraged, detached, and dissatisfied; other times we experience springtime, with its openness, hope, and anticipation. On still other occasions we bask in the warmth of summer--comfortable, relaxed, enjoying life. And then comes fall with its uncertainty, negligence, and apprehension. The cycle repeats itself many times throughout the life of a marriage, just as the seasons repeat themselves in nature.”                                        (Gary D. Chapman)

“A good marriage is good for you. That isn't just a platitude. Mounting research shows that it is the literal truth. When your marriage is healthy, your body and mind are healthier.”             
                                                              (Cliff Isaacson)

Today I married my best friend,
Our bond complete, it hath no end,
We share one soul, we share one heart,
A perfect time - a perfect start.

With these rings we share together,
Love so close to last forever,
This special day - two special hearts,
Let nothing keep this love apart.

(Rachel Elizabeth Cooper)

Sindhi Topi: Cultural Symbol of Rich Heritage - Sindh to Observe 2nd Sindhi Topi Day on December 4

Sindh Province is very rich in terms of heritage, culture and distinctive traditions. Sindhi Topi (cap) and Ajrak are the indispensable part of this culture and traditions. People of Sindh love to use Sindhi Topi (cap) and Ajrak as a part of their daily dress. It is usually offered to guests, along with a traditional Sindhi Ajrak, as a token of respect.

Last year people of Sindh observed the first ever Sindhi Topi (cap) Day on December 6. The call to celebrate the day was responded enthusiastically and people showed their love to their culture and tradition; especially Sindhi Topi (cap). 

Sindhi Topi Day - December 6, 2010

 In 2010, it is decided to observe the Sindhi Topi (cap) day on December 4. It is now being regarded as the Culture Day. As the December 4 is approaching; arrangement are being finalized to observe the 2nd Sindhi Topi (cap) Day. It is announced that seminars and symposiums will be organized and rallies will be taken out with Sindhi Topi (cap) and Ajrak on.

On this culture Day; Sindhi Topi (cap) and Ajrak will be distributed among common people to highlight the significance of Sindhi culture and to make this day memorable.

Read More detailed article here on:

Sindhi Topi (Sindhi Cap): The Most Essential Part of The Sindhi Culture - - Sindh Celebrated The First Ever "Sindhi Topi Day"

Date Sheets Announced by AIOU For Spring Semester 2010 - - For Courses of Matric, F.A, B.A and All Post Graduate Programmes

ALLAMA IQBAL OPEN UNIVERSITY has announced DATE SHEET FOR SPRING SEMESTER, 2010 for Matric/F.A/F.Sc./B.A/B.Sc/B.S Programmes vide the notification No.F.1-1/10-Conduct, issued at Islamabad on 8th November, 2010.

The notification along with Date Sheet was issued by Arshad Khan Baloch, Assistant Controller (C & S) and Hafeez Ullah, Controller of Examinations.

Examination are going to start from 29-11-2010. For complete date sheet in Microsoft Excel format, click the link below:

   Date Sheet for Matric , F.A, B.A Semester Spring, 2010


ALLAMA IQBAL OPEN UNIVERSITY has also announced DATE SHEET FOR SPRING SEMESTER, 2010 for ALL  POSTGRADUATE PROGRAMS.


Examination are going to start from 01-12-2010. For complete date sheet in Microsoft Excel format, click the link below:


   Date Sheet for Post Graduate Progammes Semester Spring, 2010

Save Marriage: Few Tips and Suggestions to Save Your Married Life - - The Relationship at Stake For Very Small Reasons

If you feel your marriage is failing the chances are you’re not communicating with your partner, or your communication is in the form of continuous arguments.
 

The reasons for the disintegration of a marriage are varied, but there are things you can do to try to solve the problems that have gradually made the partnership a miserable one.

• Talk to each other. Ask each other what they dislike about things in the marriage and see how they can be resolved. Discuss problems sensibly and try to solve them together. Talk and most of all listen. You may not like what you hear, but if you’re open with each other, you’re on the first step to solving the problems.

• Don’t suffocate your partner. Everyone needs their own space. If you need to know everything they’re doing, where they’ve been, who they’ve seen, it can be extremely claustrophobic. Being constantly worried about what your partner’s up to can destroy a relationship very quickly.

• Support each other. No matter what problems arise in a marriage, by supporting each other through it you will grow closer and the problems will not overtake your lives.

• Compromise. Today that is almost seen as a rude word, but compromise is important in any relationship. It means you love someone enough to forego your own particular needs from time to time in order to create a happy environment. This has to be done from both sides, and it will help to give you a good basis from which to move forward in the marriage.

• Discipline. Discipline in the way you look after yourself and keep yourself looking as attractive as possible. Keeping the home as a place of warmth and welcoming when you get home at night makes such a difference as to how you both perceive each other. It can be achieved and is well worth the effort no matter how tired you may be at the end of the day.

• Don’t let your children rule your marriage. However much you both love your children they should not dominate your home to the extent that you and your partner never get time for each other. Sharing things together as a family is essential, but at the end of the day it should be time for you and your partner to sit and talk about things together.

• Make time for each other and don’t take one another for granted. No-one knows what tomorrow may bring, so make the most of what you have today. Remember, each day can be lived in utter misery or happily, the choice is yours. Let tomorrow take care of itself and enjoy each other today.

• Keep your interests alive. Don’t become boring. There are wonderful things to see and do in the world, so participate in them as much as possible, both together and apart. Then you can come together at the end of the day and talk about them, keeping your interest in each other alive.

There are many others save marriage tips which will hopefully make you see it’s never impossible to keep your partnership alive.

People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges - - Lonliness: A Cause of Anxiety and Frustration

People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.    Joseph F. Newton

The lonely one offers his hand too quickly to whomever he encounters.    Friedrich Nietszche

When you close your doors, and make darkness within, remember never to say that you are alone, for you are not alone; nay, God is within, and your genius is within. And what need have they of light to see what you are doing?    Epictetus

To be an adult is to be alone.     Jean Rostand

Man's loneliness is but his fear of life.   Eugene O'neill

So lonely 'twas that God himself scarce seemed there to be.  Samuel Taylor Coleridge

People drain me, even the closest of friends, and I find loneliness to be the best state in the union to live in.      Margaret Cho

Little do men perceive what solitude is, and how far it extended? For a crowd is not company, and faces are but a gallery of pictures, and talk but a tinkling cymbal, where there is no love.    Francis Bacon

Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.       Mother Teresa

Be good and you will be lonely.    Mark Twain

People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.    Joseph F. Newton

Language has created the word loneliness to express the pain of being alone, and the word solitude to express the glory of being alone.       Paul Tillich

People drain me, even the closest of friends, and I find loneliness to be the best state in the union to live in.    Margaret Cho

Pray that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live for, great enough to die for.      Dag Hammarskjold

A blank wall of social and professional antagonism faces the woman physician that forms a situation of singular and painful loneliness, leaving her without support, respect or professional counsel.   Elizabeth Blackwell

A man in a bookstore buys a book on loneliness and every woman in the store hits on him. A woman buys a book on loneliness and the store clears out.    Doug Coupland

A woman who is willing to be herself and pursue her own potential runs not so much the risk of loneliness, as the challenge of exposure to more interesting men - and people in general.     Lorraine Hansberry

No man is an Island entire of it self; every man is a peace of the Continent, a part of the Maine; if a Clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a Promontories were, as well as if a manor of thy friends or thane own were. Any man's death diminishes me because I am involved in Mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.        John Donne

Loneliness

Is
An island
In
The middle
Of A sea of people

R.R

 

Loneliness is part of being human.
It reminds us that we are not
complete in ourselves.

David Runcorn