Why You Need Your Ex Back -- Real World Tips to Win Back Your Ex

The end of a relationship can be very painful for both the partners involved. Unfortunately, this is a common occurrence and most people will experience at least one breakup during the course of their lives. In some cases, the split may not be mutual and one member of the couple will want a reconciliation. The following paragraphs offer a how to get your ex back guide.

Get Your Ex Back 

Before trying to reconcile with your ex partner, ask yourself why you want them back. You need to be absolutely clear in your own mind that this is what you really want before pursuing them.

After the breakup, do not be tempted to continually text and ring your ex. Do not suddenly appear in places you know they will be. Give that person the opportunity to miss you, and your company. This will give you time to consider what went wrong with the relationship.

Did you take that person for granted, or did they take you for granted. Did you ignore their complaints about the relationship, or, did they ignore yours. If the relationship were to be rekindled, how would you change, how would you want them to change.

Try also to remember why that person first felt attracted to you, what they loved about you. Also ask yourself what you loved about them, what attracted you to them. When you have the answers to these questions, particularly, the ones about how you felt, where you might have gone wrong, it is time to arrange a meeting. Or, write a letter.

If writing a letter, highlight the areas in the relationship which you think you could have handled better, show that you have learnt from mistakes. Do not try to second guess your ex, ask them their opinion. Make the letter a two way process of communication, which they can respond to. If you meet with them, try to convey what you would have put in the letter.

Using a how to get your ex back guide may involve asking some probing questions of yourself. The ability to communicate well and unpick relationship problems is paramount.

Women Like Silent Men: They Think They're Listening

The Women……… Women like silent men. They think they're listening.

“If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball and saving an infant's life, she will choose to save the infant's life without even considering if there are men on base.”

(Dave Barry)

“Sure God created man before woman. But then you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece.” (Author Unknown)

“Some men know that a light touch of the tongue, running from a woman's toes to her ears, lingering in the softest way possible in various places in between, given often enough and sincerely enough, would add immeasurably to world peace.” (Marianne Williamson)

“Women cannot complain about men anymore until they start getting better taste in them.”

(Bill Maher)

“A male gynaecologist is like an auto mechanic who has never owned a car.” (Carrie Snow)

“You start out happy that you have no hips or boobs. All of a sudden you get them, and it feels sloppy. Then just when you start liking them, they start drooping.”

(Cindy Crawford)

“Every girl should use what Mother Nature gave her before Father Time takes it away.” (Laurence J. Peter)

“The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.” (Author Unknown)

“When women are the advisers, the lords of creation don't take the advice till they have persuaded themselves that it is just what they intended to do. Then they act upon it, and, if it succeeds, they give the weaker vessel half the credit of it. If it fails, they generously give her the whole.” (Louisa May Alcott)

“What happens is that, as with drugs, he needs a stronger shot each time, and women are just women. The consumption of one woman is the consumption of all. You can’t double the dose.” (Ian Fleming)

Every world has faults

This one has too many

Unattainable Female Objects.

(David Jonathan Newman)

“Woman was God's second mistake.” (Friedrich Nietzsche)

“I think women dwell quite a bit on the duress under which they work, on how hard it is just to do it at all. We are traditionally rather proud of ourselves for having slipped creative work in there between the domestic chores and obligations. I'm not sure we deserve such big A-pluses for all that.” (Toni Morrison)

Not phoney women, honest women……,
Not meandering women, trustworthy women……,
Not mean women, kind women……,
Not angry women, happy women…..,
Not sneaky women, truthful women……,
Not prissy women, assertive women……,
Not thoughtless women, thoughtful women…..,
Not mindless women, considerate women……,

Real Men LOVE Real Women……! ! ! (Trade Martin)

Mind is the master power that moles and makes,
And we are Mind, and evermore we take
The tool of thought, and shaping what we will,
Bring forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills,
We think in secret, and it comes to pass -
Our world is but our looking glass.
(James Allen)

Mother: The Truest Friend and Purest Relationship in The World

"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new."

“Mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavour by her kind precepts and cause peace to return to our hearts.”

Before you were conceived I wanted you
Before you were born I loved you
Before you were here an hour I would die for you
This is the miracle of life.